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Instant Success-ability
By Dr Jill Ammon-Wexler

Did you realize you can increase your success-ability by consciously choosing to use certain words?

** The “Guaranteed-Failure” Statement
Let’s say you’re fired-up to create some lasting change in your life. You’ve set your goals down on paper, and even created a plan of action.

You've got fire and desire, and know exactly what you're going to do. You set your goal for tomorrow morning, and then promise yourself, "Starting tomorrow I'll try to …."

You just made a crippling success-ability mistake before you even started ­ a mistake that will ensure that you will NOT manage to achieve your goal.

What does “I'll try” really mean? It means you've given yourself an exit, just in case you hit some bumps in the road (and you most certainly will.)

The word “TRY” lacks intention and confidence. It assumes failure. It says, "Alright, I'll give it a go, but I do NOT expect to succeed.” It provides a built-in escape route.

** The “Over the Rainbow” Statement
Now check out how it feels to use an “I am” statement. Suppose your goal is to feel better and lose a few pounds. You could use the “I am” statement to tell yourself something like: “I am going to feel better by walking 20 minutes 5 days a week.”

“I am” at least does not presume failure. But there’s still a problem when you say “I am.”

The problem?

WHEN and WHERE are you going to take your intended action? Somewhere over the rainbow? This statement, although an improvement, does not reflect a specific commitment to take action.

If you find you’re having trouble committing to when and where, it’s probably time to take a good look at either your goal, or your goal plan. If your goal is right, your goal plan might have you starting at the wrong first step.

Back up and identify an action step you’re ready to tackle. It doesn't matter how small it may seem. You're often better off starting with a small step and achieving success - than starting off with a huge step you’re not ready to handle.

** The “I Mean Business” Statement
Once you have refined your starting point, now notice how it feels like to say:

“I am now ….”

This statement establishes a sense of power and intention. It says you truly mean business. That you believe in what you are saying, and you are right NOW taking a step to make it happen.

It means you are in action and have established your success-ability. You’ve made a very real commitment to yourself that you are honoring. It also says that you WILL find a way to get the task done, even if there is a bump in the road.

Success-ability is achieved by breaking your goal down into a series of achievable steps, then committing to each step one at a time. You can only do what is before you right now! Tomorrow’s larger success is built on today’s smaller successes.

This approach makes your success inevitable.

Dr Jill Ammon-Wexler is a former consultant to the Pentagon and a Presidential Commission, and has spent over thirty years coaching top executives to exceptional levels of success. Her “Take Charge” success-building ecourse is in use by thousands of success-seekers in 27 countries of the world.

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