Find Your Purpose
Use
these steps to find your purpose and then achieve it!
Making
Your Purpose Your Business, Step #1
By Heather
J. Tait
Step#1-
Discovering Your Purpose
There
is no such thing as a small job. Each function within
our society aids our detailed technical lifestyles and well being.
From a store clerk to a business executive, each position is an
intricate part of the matrix of our world. We rely on these functions
without even realizing their value or contribution to our daily
activity. Each person has their place and each person has their
purpose. The key is discovering and taking the time to find out
what exactly you are to contribute to the world.
What
is even more challenging is that often we are presented with serving
multiple roles in our lives besides just our purpose.
We are parents, workers, spouses, and children. All of which demand
time and effort from our daily lives. What is important though is
that we balance our time and our roles to nurture our purpose and
inner abilities. It takes time and effort to discover your goals
and ambitions, but it is a quest that need not go unnoticed.
A common
excuse for not nurturing our talents is that we are too busy with
other activities. When in actuality perhaps we have over extended
our time and resources. Take a moment to sit down and note what
in your life takes up your time. And then after you make that list,
make a column and mark what is a priority, what really has
to be done. Be sure to note how much personal time you get outside
from all your other responsibilities. Start out small and see if
you can allocate at least a half hour or an hour of your time a
day devoted to yourself without interruptions. Use this time to
evaluate the path of your life. Are you doing what you want to be
doing right now? If yes, what could you do to further your progress?
If no, what do you want to do?
Use
free thinking in your evaluation. Free thinking means there are
no limits. You can dream to be anything you want to be. Think about
what you would like to do whether you were paid or not. Think about
what makes you feel good as a person. Maybe you like the arts or
maybe you like to work outside. Compare your aspirations with your
current life situation. Are you close to your goals or are you far
away?
Once
you have addressed your aspirations, make notes in a special notebook
dedicated to just you. It is great to see your ideas take formation
when they hit the paper and also it is a great way to look at your
progress on days where you may feel there is none. Plus you will
need a notebook for further steps as well. Feel free to personalize
this notebook and make it attractive for yourself.
Dont
feel guilty for taking this special time for yourself. Understand
that your commitment to yourself will reflect off onto others. By
bettering yourself, you become better in all the roles and commitments
you hold. It is when we stop to listen to our true selves and the
nature of our lives that we are able to create abundance in our
environment and those around us. What you are doing is investing
in a personal foundation.
If
you only have a half hour or an hour a day, make a list of what
you want to accomplish with that time. So once the clock starts
ticking you are ready to be productive and work on your goals. Time
management is good practice right from the beginning. So when you
do figure out what your purpose is, you will be ready to use every
minute you get efficiently.
Once
you figure out where you want to go or what direction you want to
take in your life, then take the time to research
research
research.
Research is a crucial element of developing your career strategy.
Go to the library or do a search online for the topic you are interested
in pursuing. Find out what tools you will need to start your purpose.
Will you need additional education or training? Will you need a
business loan? Or will you be using your own personal resources
for the start up? Dont let money issues stop your progress.
Remember knowledge is the currency here. There are ways to accomplish
your purpose on little to no funds.
Remember
real life purposes take real life work. Sure some people get lucky,
but often others have to really dedicate themselves to their success.
Have an open mind during this self evaluation period and the rest
will follow. Most importantly, be patient with yourself the same
way you would be patient with another person. Secondly, perseverance
is essential in the formula for success. You have to be willing
to make a serious commitment from day one to yourself. Your ideas
may change form along the way, but at least you are continuing to
reach towards self fulfillment.
As
a summary for this steps exercise, write it down, take a pen
and paper and make a personal inventory of your ambitions or the
things that you are good at and enjoy. What do you feel passion
about? What would you want to do even if you didnt get paid
for it? Second of all, be honest with yourself. Dont feel
ashamed or guilty to recognize your talents
after all thats
what they are there for, to be recognized. Its up to you to
release them and share them with others. Make your purpose, your
business.
Artist
and Inspirational Writer Heather J. Tait began her career as a professional
artist back in 1997 in Morgan Hill, CA. Her work and articles are
displayed internationally. She is also the founder of Silence Speaks
International Artist Association and the Editor of Intrigue Magazine.
She has also been inducted into the 2004-2005 Whos Who Among
American Women. Email:
contact@silencespeaks.com
Silence Speaks http://www.silencespeaks.com
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