Cheating In Relationships
Find
out the three factors that contribute to cheating in relationships.
Infidelity
- Again!
By Reena Sommer, Ph.D.
Did
you know that the majority of people who experience infidelity in
their relationships will likely experience it again - even if they
move on to other relationships!
Pretty
unbelieveable - but unfortunately, it's the truth. One would think
that getting badly burned once would be enough. But that's not quite
the way it happens for many....
There
are reasons for why infidelity, adultery and extra marital affairs
often become a repeated pattern for some people in relationships
and not in others. People are complicated and things are not always
as they appear.
Neverthess,
a relationship's vulnerability to infidelity comes down to the following
major three factors...
ONE
- People's choices in a partner or spouse are not in line with what
they need or want, or with what their spouse or partner can give
them. In other words, there is a mismatch along the important dimension
of emotional intimacy.
TWO
- People fail to make their relationships a priority by putting
the time and energy into them that they need. That leaves them open
for infidelity and cheating to take root.
THREE
- People fail to understand the issues that lead to the infidelity,
adultery and extra marital affair in the first place. They also
don't see the part they played in the relationship's failure. For
many people, it is easier to blame someone else for things that
went wrong rather than looking inward for understanding.
Does
any of this ring a bell? If it does, then it's time to pay attention.
Goodness knows, you don't need another round of the heartache and
grief that comes with infidelity and extra marital affairs.
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Dr.
Reena Sommer is an internationally recognized relationship and divorce
consultant, speaker and author. Download a free introductory copy
of her newly released e-Book, "The Anatomy of An Affair"
at http://www.reenasommerassociates.mb.ca/affairs.html
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